How to Safely Incorporate Hair Pulling Into Sex

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Hair pulling can intensify pleasure when done correctly and consensually.

Why It Works

Hair pulling stimulates the scalp's nerve endings while also triggering a rush of adrenaline due to its slightly edgy nature. This combination can heighten arousal and emotional excitement during intimate moments.

How To Try It

  1. 1. Start with a gentle caress of your partner's hair to establish a trusting atmosphere.
  2. 2. Gradually gather a small handful of hair at the roots, ensuring you have a secure grip.
  3. 3. Pull with a steady but gentle pressure, coordinating your movement with your partner's breathing.
  4. 4. Monitor their response—if they seem to enjoy it, you can increase the intensity slightly.
  5. 5. Combine hair pulling with other forms of touch, such as kissing or body stroking, to elevate the experience.

Pro Tip

Pro tip: Experiment with different angles of pull for varied sensations, and always check in with your partner for comfort and enjoyment.

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