How to Use Massage to Enhance Sexual Arousal

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A well-timed massage can be the ultimate foreplay, igniting passion and desire in unexpected ways.

Massage stimulates the release of oxytocin, known as the 'love hormone,' which enhances feelings of intimacy and connection. It also increases blood flow and relaxes muscles, heightening sensitivity to touch and arousal.

Start with a calming atmosphere; dim the lights and play soft music. Use warm oil or lotion to create a smooth glide on the skin, applying it to your partner’s back. Incorporate long, sweeping strokes followed by gentle kneading, focusing on tense areas. Gradually move to erogenous zones like the thighs and lower back, using softer touches. Finish with a deep pressure massage on the shoulders, then transition into intimate touch.

Pro tip: Experiment with different types of pressure and speed to discover what drives your partner wild.

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