How to Use the Come Here Gesture for Better Fingering

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The come here gesture can unlock new levels of pleasure during fingering.

Why It Works

This technique targets the highly sensitive G-spot, causing heightened arousal and stronger orgasms. The curved motion mimics the natural shape of the vaginal canal, stimulating nerve endings effectively.

How To Try It

  1. 1. Start with gentle foreplay to build arousal and ensure comfort.
  2. 2. Insert one or two fingers slowly, keeping your palm facing upward.
  3. 3. Curve your fingers in a 'come here' motion towards the front wall of the vagina.
  4. 4. Adjust the speed and pressure based on your partner's reactions.
  5. 5. Incorporate rhythmic motions, maintaining eye contact and verbal cues for feedback.

Pro Tip

Pro tip: Combine the come here gesture with clitoral stimulation for a more intense experience.

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