How to Use the Come-Hither Motion for Better Fingering

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The 'come-hither' motion can elevate the pleasure of fingering beyond expectations.

Why It Works

This technique specifically stimulates the G-spot, which is rich in nerve endings and can produce intense pleasure. The come-hither motion applies targeted pressure, enhancing sensations and potentially leading to orgasm.

How To Try It

  1. 1. Start with gentle caresses around the vulva to build arousal.
  2. 2. Insert one or two fingers into the vagina, curling them toward the front wall.
  3. 3. Use a rhythmic 'come-hither' motion, applying varying pressure as you go.
  4. 4. Pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust speed or intensity accordingly.
  5. 5. Experiment by adding clitoral stimulation with your other hand for heightened pleasure.

Pro Tip

Pro tip: Incorporate different finger placements and speeds to find what feels best for your partner.

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