Why More Lube Feels Better Than You Think
Lubrication lube foreplay penetrationThe most common mistake is using too little lube, which actually reduces sensation instead of enhancing it.
Why It Works
Proper lubrication reduces friction-based discomfort that distracts from pleasure, allowing nerve endings to register subtle sensations more clearly. When there's adequate glide, the body relaxes rather than tensing defensively, which increases blood flow to erogenous zones and makes orgasm more accessible. The right amount also extends the duration of sex by removing the physical barrier that causes premature fatigue.
How To Try It
- 1. Apply lube to yourself first—about a quarter-sized amount for external play, more for penetration—and warm it between your fingers for 3-5 seconds.
- 2. Spread it evenly across the area, then add more than feels necessary; most people underestimate how much creates optimal glide.
- 3. Reapply halfway through—lube naturally breaks down, and adding fresh lubricant restarts the sensation of initial entry.
- 4. Notice how your body relaxes when friction disappears; this relaxation is what allows deeper pleasure and easier orgasm.
- 5. Experiment with different formulas (silicone, water-based, oil) to find which reduces friction most effectively for your body.
Pro Tip
Pro tip: silicone lube lasts 3-4x longer than water-based, making it ideal for longer sessions, while water-based washes away cleanly if you're concerned about mess.